I feel I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don't kn

I feel I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don't know how to forgive, and I don't know how to make him the past.
I'm stuck at my mums, and financially he 'can't buy me out'.... So I'm stuck. He's not making much effort to patch things.... Which is fine.... But would be much easier if he could just let me go....
Just make life harder, my daughters nursery went into administration and now the new one is going to be 300 pounds dearer a month!
I'm never going to get out of this hell! Just want to move on so badly!
Keep telling myself a year from now everything will be ok.... Here's hoping...

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Mar 25, 2016

As I said in my previous post too.. I'm fine with him not making an effort anymore... Just wish he would let me go now and get on with my life.

Mar 25, 2016

He was never one for making an effort in the first place! It was always me doing the work... Which I let him away with and look where is got us! But I've found it was still me making the effort! Guess I'm through with it now! Want to just get on with life! But I guess he's got me where he likes... I'm in limbo and hate it! Want to give him a good slap to wake him up!!

Mar 26, 2016

So met the OH or STbX .... Don't quite know what to call him... But I said I need closure and the only way to do that is for him to buy me out the house or sell it.... Because we've just bought it we need to wait to Feb to sell it or we'll have very hefty selling fees. But his response as per..... But what if we get back on track and everything's ok?
He doesn't want to give up at the moment clearly.... But isn't putting in effort to spend time with us? Even though twice he's been invited to come out with us ( he was complaining of being lonely) .... And he blew us off because he was too drunk. I seriously think he has a depression issue. It's like he wants to act on things.... But has no desire to act at the same time. I've said he has issues he needs to get resolved. I think he is depressed, and doesn't know what to do with himself.
I'm shattered with it all!


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