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I fee like my life is spinning out of control! Last night I

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I fee like my life is spinning out of control! Last night I had a panic attack. Scary! I don't know if it's because of the new anxiety meds my doctor put me on or if it's because of all of the stress I've been under. Saw my cheating h in court this week after nc for 3.5 months. His emails are just upsetting, suggesting reconciliation and wanting to hang on to his best female friend as well. I don't even know the person I married for almost 8 years. His perspective so clouded, wanting to give me reasons for his dishonesty. I don't need to hear any of them! I'm so done with him. I need it all to stop so I can feel well again and get my life back! Can anyone relate to this??

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May 16

@Tundra
Another set back. So less than one week after seeing him in court he writes me an email today wanting to go to the park for light conversation and take baby steps towards getting to know one another again. He just doesn't understand the gravity of what he has done. I ended up sending him an email that there is no hope for reconciliation. That I need to heal from the pain he has caused and look forward to finding happiness in my life again.

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May 16

Good for you for protecting your heart!

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May 16

@Shattered18 I don't think that was a setback. I think what you did was very brave and smart. I also feel like you should block him, but I don't know if you have children or not with him. If you block his email address, he may not have another way to contact you about the kids. He will take the hint. You did NOT let him manipulate you this time.

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