I caught my wife over a month ago having an emotional affair

I caught my wife over a month ago having an emotional affair. It has been a daily struggle. On the positive she broke it off imeadiateley and we have had some of the best times of our lives since then. I need to add I was for many years prior a good husband and father in almost all aspects, except I neglected my wife in many ways I showed no affection, we had sex 10 times a year and that's on me for sure not her. The problem is I found out more information and more information every week in last month, my wife suggested couples counseling when I caught her. Mostly everything I have caught her on videos, text, u name it. My struggle trying to get this out of my head to move on. She has forgiven me for being a lifeless husband for years. Therer is alot more to this just needing advice please, open to messages on her also for help. Thank you

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Jul 14

@leo1974
Did she tell you or did you find out by looking on the computer, phone, etc.?

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Jul 14

@jnlewis38 I have found out everything on computer from May 27 til last sunday in waves, she hasn't came clean on anything on her own.

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Jul 14

@leo1974 Do u see where the voices in your head get u, when u find out ask is there any thing else she says no, then u catch her more so on and so , I know I was wrong but it's hard.

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