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I caught my husband of almost 16 years together cheating wit

I caught my husband of almost 16 years together cheating with one of my best friends. They didn’t have sex but they did other stuff. This is so unlike him since he is seriously not that type of person at all. He was extremely intoxicated and I am not making up excuses for him. My best friend does have bad history of sleeping around. We have two young kids and we are trying to make this work. I deeply feel like he would have never done this to me or our family. Everyone who knows is dying the same thing, they just don’t feel he has it in him. It’s been a rough last two weeks especially since I saw them together. Memories are going crazy in my head, especially at bed time. My husband and I have talked a lot and are going to make this work. I already feel better and for some crazy way I feel better when I’m with him. My struggle now is when I am going to be and he is tired and doesn’t wanna talk, cuddle, sex, anything I get mad at him and try to start a fight. Is this normal? Is this a phase? I ask him questions about the affair and he starts to get irritated.

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Jan 17

He is extremely remorse full and answers all the questions I ask him. This is extremely out of character for him. I just like to talk about it before bed when it is going through my head and he is tired and falls asleep as soon as he hits the pillow so that’s when I become annoyed

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Jan 17

@Nelly1985 I also said these things in the beginning. This was totally out of character for my stbx also. I found out about the one affair and then another and possibly more. We were married for 18 years when I found out. He was the most caring, kindest, gentlest person I have ever met. He always treated me with complete respect and always seemed to put me as his priority. But he had this other side to him that nobody knew anything about. He is not a happy person inside and has blown his whole world up. You have to protect yourself during this time. Make sure you're doing what is good for you. Be kind to yourself. Have you considered a temporary separation or having him sleep in another room? It might do you some good to get some space so you can clear your head.

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Jan 17

the first few times he slept in our daughters room. He has stopped drinking. I’m sure there are going to be ups and downs but I honestly believe this was a true mistake and will never happen again. So I’m hopefull we will get through this and become a stronger couple

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