I am struggling, my husband of 23 years has been cheating on

I am struggling, my husband of 23 years has been cheating online for almost 20 years flirting and sexting women. Last 5 years physical affairs with 2 different women, till I caught him. He says he loves me, wants to make it work, but I can't stop flashing to these other women and how he betrayed me. My family want me to kick him out, even his son is telling me to make him leave. I had promised the couples counselor that I would wait at least a month. My feelings change consistently and I feel confident that him leaving would be the best, than I think I am making that decision because of family pressure. I am depressed and sad all the time. I feel no benefit from the couples counseling as I can't stop thinking about the women he has been with. I just want the pain to stop. I am seeing a Trauma counselor tomorrow and he is scheduled with an addictions specialist. I just don't know what to do, I want to run away.

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Blind2017's picture
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Nov 16

@littlestarsmum Thank you for your support, I really appreciate it. Blessings

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Ceciliamcd's picture
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Nov 17

Take in one day at a time . Feel what you need to . I’m sorry .

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Blind2017's picture
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Nov 17

@Ceciliamcd thank you

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