I am new to this group so here’s a little bit about my sis

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I am new to this group so here’s a little bit about my situation ... I’m married 18yrs found out my husband was cheating on me 4
Months ago. We are in counseling and taking it day by day. He is very remorseful and is trying really hard to fix his mistakes. I believe he is sorry however I’m struggling so much to get these awful images and betrayal
Out of my head. It’s eating me up almost everyday. I really want us to work for the sake of our family. We have been great in the past it’s just these past few years we put our marriage on the back burner. Any suggestions or advice how I can move on to feel happy and get the nightmare of all the details out of my head each day??

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[135]
Dec 9

@lissy1265 Id love to hear your input as well on cheaters hurt? My husband is hurting from childhood abandonment issues and rejection as a child. He’s not a very open person however he’s been trying really hard to express to me his dark pain and loneliness as he calls it.

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Dec 9

My Husband has opened up so much since DD and that is not easy for him. I do know that cheaters have their own pain and for the past 9 months I couldn’t see his pain because I was in my own hell. My Doctor put me on antidepressants about three months ago and it has helped me tremendously, at least the roller coaster ride is not so steep. I understand that my Husband feels so ashamed and hurt at the hurt he has caused me and our Family. My Husband also had dark pain and loneliness that he never shared with me and we have been together 29 years

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Dec 9

Yes. Must have been awful for them. All that gratuitous sex. Too bad the 'bad feelings' they got from it didn't surpass the good. Then they wouldn't have been cheating.

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