I’m Young. I’m only 16 but I’ve been in a relationship

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I’m Young. I’m only 16 but I’ve been in a relationship for about two years. My boyfriend is 19. He moved in with me and my mom sometime in April 2017. He’s been living with us for about 8 months. When he first moved in we had a lot of problems, because of me. I became a different person and started getting overly jealous for no reason and controlling over stupid things. He was ready to break up with me because itwas so bad. My mom is a therapist and always helped us work out our problems, and she helped woth this too. I changed everything and fought so hard to keep him. On December 12 I was supposed to be at school but I went to hospital instead (I have a lot of medical problems) and I kept trying to get in contact with my mom but she wasn’t answering. When I came home she was still there and not at work yet. I thought I’d get in trouble for not being at school. When I walked in I didn’t see her in her room at all and walked out. I saw all her stuff on the dinning room table and my stomach dropped I just knew already. I walked towards the kitchen (my boyfriends room was connected to the kitchen) and turned in. His door was wide open and I heard moaning, and I walked in to my mom on top of him. They have been having sex and an entire relationship behind my back for the past 5-6 months since we had our problems back then. I’m so hurt and crushed. It’ll be a month tomorrow that I walked in and every day just gets worse and worse. Me and my mom had always been close everyone’s always wanted the relationship we had, and overall my relationship with my boyfriend was so happy and incredible and he was never the type to do this. It’s so hard to get up in the mornings and try to live my daily life. I am trying to get emancipated rightnow or just find an apartment. I’m so stressed and down I don’t know what to do anymore

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Jan 14

@itsgonnagetbetterwithfaith I feel the same way, I just need help getting through this with others who understand. :(

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Jan 14

@Scat thank you so much

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Jan 14

@Lost.com I know I’m young but people don’t seem to understand that even though I’m 16 and he is 19 we were in a very mature relationship so it is hard to just let it go like he is “just some boy” like everyone says. We had a very in depth intense connection and I love him very much. He’s my best friend not just my boyfriend and it hurts more than anything

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