Hi. Very newly separated and feeling raw My wife of 30 ye

[810]

Hi. Very newly separated and feeling raw

My wife of 30 years has been cheating on me on and off over the last 5 years. Every time I catch her she says it's the last. Caught her on Monday and told her to go. Then Tuesday asked what will she do and she said I'm going to him. So cleared the house Tuesday. Haven't slept for three days can't work. Just keep running stuff round my head. Cycling between love and hate. We are talking and she is letting me stay in the house with our adult sons. She even offered help with the bills. I just don't understand what she expects to gain. I can't understand how she hid this last time for more than six months. We had a normal sex life how could she do that knowing she wanted to be with him , who she says she hasn't slept with yet. I'm so angry and confused. I realise I'm better off without the lies as they have drivien me mad over the 5 years but I still love and want her. How do I move on.

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Oct 16

@MawUk
Good point.

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[810]
Oct 16

Not a very good start to the day haven’t slept for a week and cut my thumb and index finger on the bandsaw at work so now bandaged on the positive side my date was awesome she’s gorgeous loves music and travel we didn’t stop talking and before we knew it it was nearly 11 o’clock she texted me saying she had a great time so fingers crossed we’ll do it again soon

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14 hours ago

@MawUk
That's awesome! Glad it was good and hope it made you feel better.

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