Hi I'm new here. I've been struggling lately with dealing wi

Hi I'm new here. I've been struggling lately with dealing with my husband's affair. We have been working through it, we've done couples counseling. He's been doing everything to show me he's a safe partner. I do ok mostly these days, but sometimes I have these bad days where I have so many mixed feelings. It's hard because no one knows, so I don't have anyone to talk to

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Sep 14

Your pain is normal and is expected. This is not easy. Its going to take time and you will have bad days and then there will be good days. I really felt like i was broken when this first happened a year ago. It has taken lots of time to help me get over this. You can do it. I'm rooting for you and for everyone here.

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Sep 14

@Two_years it sounds like you two are doing all the right things. I find that when other bad things happen in my life (and breaking your neck is really bad), that it brings up the pain of the infidelity all over again. I am working on that and trying to separate things in my mind but it's not easy.

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Sep 17

I am sorry for all you are going through, but I applaud you for wanting to work things out with your husband. It sounds like you have had several unfortunate things happen, so give yourself some extra time to grieve and get stronger. I am also glad you are going to counseling. There will be some good days and bad days, but I pray that the good will begin to outweigh the bad very soon. Hugs!

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