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Good morning I'm working with my wife to fix everything aft

Good morning
I'm working with my wife to fix everything after her online affair. About more than a year ago I caught my wife cheating online. We have been working on fix our relationship . But is very hard for me to completely forgive her. Expecialy when about a week ago I started to get text messages from a random numbers sending me pictures of my wife naked. That stir everything again my heart started to hurt again. We talked yesterday I we end up arguing. I still can't not believe the things she did with that man online. I think was wrong from me to ask her why she didn't want to do those thinks with me and tell me her fantasy's. She told me that she don't feel comfortable telling her fantasy's and that I will overreact if she did. He are been married for over 20 years. Is wrong for me to feel hurt that she doesn't want to share that wild side with me? I asked her that she was okay sharing that wild side with a stranger. Please help I'm thinking to end our marriage. I don't want only half of her. Any advice?

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[26250]
Aug 5, 2019

@Robert1979 I'm so sorry that you you are going through this. It's so hurtful. I have a similiar situation. My husband has carried on two affairs that I know about. 1 for 3 years long distance but she came here a few times to have sex with him. The other is a year now and that POT is 4 hours away. We always had a good sex life. I was alwasy more adventurous than him. When I asked for certain things he thought it would be disrespectful to me. My therapist feels that he had certain fantasies but held me in such higher regard than these other pieces of trash, that he couldn't ask me for it. Who knows why they did what they did. I'm just clawing my way to a new beginning.

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[26250]
Aug 5, 2019

The unfortunate thing for him is that I wouldn't have made him feel weird or embarrassed. I would've made him feel accepted. I've heard what hes done with the other women. It made me sick simply because it was done with them and not me, his wife and so called best friend.

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[26250]
Aug 6, 2019

@Robert1979 23 years is a long time. If you love her and want to fight and she's willing to do the same, then do it! You can't only rely on your brain in these circumstances, you have to listen to your heart as well.

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