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For those staying, how do you define if they are trying hard

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For those staying, how do you define if they are trying hard enough? Mine owns the affair but said that she thought I didn't love her. She asked for intimacy and said that I was not close. I have been trying very hard to communicate and be close but I don't feel the same. I'm not sure if it's just because my confidence has shook or if she is incapable and just blames me. So confused.

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Feb 25

@mmadwaite there is nothing to say it can't or won't happen again, but if you can't move past that fact than it's already over! You can't run every day through the filter of yesterday, if you can't forgive and I mean truly forgive and move on with this "new" relationship than what is left? As hard as it you need to instill what trust you can, if you're able to move past this event and give them one more chance with your heart. I know what they did to us what terrible but if you stayed you must deep down believe they are not terrible people! So can you give them another chance? Are you willing to take the risk and hope for the best? You can't punish your spouse for something that hasn't happened yet.

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Feb 25

@HurtingHeart19 thanks, yes we definitely have different ideas. We are working on it. I just hope it gets easier.

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Feb 25

@HurtingHeart19 Yes, I agree. If you can't truly forgive, what is the sense of remaining in the relationship.

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