Feeling disrespected. I have only set one firm boundary pos

Feeling disrespected. I have only set one firm boundary post D-Day, and my wife continues to disregard it. The cherry on top is that, if I bring it up, she plays the victim. I hate what infidelity has done to our lives. Just needed to vent because I knew you all would understand, and I have no one irl to share things like this with.

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kevin79's picture
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Aug 9

@dogmom22, thank you! Sorry that you are here, too.

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Aug 9

@cbgrace1980, we went to counseling together all of twice. The second time was after full disclosure and I fell apart. Since then my wife has been reluctant to go back to MC because she says she felt trapped and ganged up on and never wanted to feel that way again. We are both in IC, though. We are able to talk about it a bit ourselves now, given it has been nearly 17 months since D-Day, but the situation with AP is very complicated.
Despite all of this, I would say reconciliation is going well, and that we are making it. I thank you for your encouraging words based on your own experience. It sucks to be here, but it is nice to know you are not alone and to be able to speak to people who truly care and understand exactly what you are experiencing.

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My wife still works with the AP and it has made reconciliation take 10x longer.

Do they work together?

I feel for you man.

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