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Jul 17

I hear what is being said. And emotionally I can't imagine believing trust comes back. At the same time, Dr. Harley explains that trust at the level we had with our partners should never have existed in the first place. Further, Dr. Harley says trust eventually comes back as time and evidence mounts up. Relying on faith for the time being.

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Jul 17

True. I'm stealing this...

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Jul 17

@metallicat17 the part of Dr. Harley that was a breakthrough for us was his "love busting behaviors." My H read that and it was the begining of his coming out of the fog. He had so convinced himself how bad a wife I was that he deserved what he was doing. Then he read Harley's chapter and started to cry when he realized that it was HIM, not me, who had engaged in every single behavior on that list.

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