Check it out, new blog above, "All the Feels"!!!! Additionally, we are looking for group Moderators, if you are interested, please email us at [email protected] Preferably we are looking for members who have been on our site for at least 4 months and are at a point on their life path where they can give support based on life experience-Team SG

Do they ever REALLY know how badly they've hurt us? How dev

Do they ever REALLY know how badly they've hurt us? How devastated we are? How this experience completely CHANGED us as a person? How it feels like the immense pain will never go away? I was recently reading an excerpt from a book by a therapist that has devoted her career to helping marriages survive infidelity and she said she once had a patient that had lost ALL of her immediate family members and said that finding out about her husbands affair was THE defining moment in her life. Loosing her parents, her brother, her sister and two babies to miscarriages didn't begin to touch the kind of pain she was experiencing from her husband's betrayal. That blew my mind and hit home. This is the most excruciatingly painful, life altering thing ever. It truly changes us. Do they ever even understand what they've done???

Comment
 72
View 69 More Comments
[106250]
Mar 21

@Kas1966 You are very welcome!... At least there is, hopefully, something to show for in old age: wisdom!......

Reply
Kas1966's picture
[48785]
Mar 21

@pickone wish I could say that for my old age

Reply
[106250]
Mar 21

@Kas1966 You are probably not old yet; give yourself time......

Reply

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account