Been with my wife for 9 and a half years, found out 2-3 mont

Been with my wife for 9 and a half years, found out 2-3 months ago she had an affair with the next door neighbor while I was away at school, she initially told me it was only sexual once, then about a month ago she told me it was twice, we have tried to move past it and I don't want to lose her, I just don't know how to trust her...I find myself seeing the same patterns happening now....I can't go through it again...

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Would your wife be open to a marriage seminar? A place to get a new perspective on marriage and your relationship? My wife and I like Weekend to Remember marriage retreats. They are only 3 days in length - but they will completely change how you both look at marriage and relate to one another. They are taught by people who struggled in their own marriage - so you can learn from their mistakes. Prayers that you find a good way to reconcile your marriage - if there is still a chance.

May 27

Yeah she's not open to anything right now, and I'm at the point where I can't keep trying and building hope just to let it all crash down again, so no I don't think there is a chance, I think the best thing I can do for myself and my boys is to try and move forward and find happiness some how

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May 27

@Jeff87 have you spoken with an attorney about the best way to handle it for you and your boys? Can you get her to move out?


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