7 months and the pain is still fresh as day one . We are mov

7 months and the pain is still fresh as day one . We are moving forward as I still mourn for everything I lost . I am honestly not sure if I can ever forgive him for what he has done to me . Something we both will have to live with . Yes is very remorseful and is trying . It's just sad that because he made a selfish choice we are starting over .i lost that feeling that our marriage was special. That I was special. A life altering process that sucks .

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Sep 13

@ceciliacmd thanks for posting. I'm 7 months in as well and was wondering if it's normal that the pain still be so fresh. Things are going very well for us but it doesn't stop the pain. It's just a bit easier to bear.

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Sep 13

@Nelloc I sure hope so...we are working hard. 2 mos in...and it is hard work. Some days/weeks better than others. Learning lots. Hope we make it. Only time will tell I think, but I guess I'll always wonder if I don't try. Our marriage counselors say it can be done, and we can have the kind of relationship we have always wanted if we keep working hard.

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Sep 13

@pettigrew21 I think in time the pain will fade but we will carry in tucked in our hearts . Here if you need to talk .

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