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I recently left a bad relationship...it ended because my ex

I recently left a bad relationship...it ended because my ex chose the girl he cheated on me with. We had been on and off for a while..but more on because we found out I was pregnant and we were trying to make it work despite the lying and the cheating..huge mistake..it kept happening. The most recent one was a girl he works. I think he fell for her but was unable to admit it to me or to himself..so he kept lying to me and to her..telling me he wanted to be with me and only me..but would say the same to her.. I realize I should have let him go sooner. He would never change despite the fact that he said he wanted to be a family. He recently moved in with me(another huge mistake) only to move out 2 days later and then move in with her. I thought I would be more sad. More torn over it, but I think it’s gotten to the point where it is happened so many times I’m now numb to it. It still hurts but mostly my pride..the pregnancy has made me gain weight. The girl he cheated with is skinny compared to me. And I know it was all about sex for him. We started out this relationship thanks to tinder.. it started with sex and it ended because of sex. He wanted sex with her more than with me because of the pregnancy. He was always criticizing me over my weight but would still stay with me..I now realize it was all manipulation.. he is a sad unhappy man. So he was using me and my love to make him feel better..this time around when it ended I realized I didn’t love him. I cared for him sure but there was no more love. I never could forgive his infidelities. I think that is why destroyed us. But now I’m afraid my daughter(who is not here yet) will come to be as disappointed in him as I am. I just don’t know how to feel. I want to be angry but that just makes me do dumb things..and it makes me feel dumb..I just don’t know where to go from here and I’m afraid I will try to fall back In with him just so I won’t be lonely..it’s confusing being pregnant and depressed..I’m sad all the time and I don’t t want to be...it affects my baby girl more than anyone.

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May 16

@Ghernram1309
Hello and welcome to the SG Depression group. We are happy that you have joined us. This is an amazing and safe place where you can share your thoughts, feelings and thoughts without judgement. Continue to post and you will make friends and receive help and support. I am so very sorry for what you have been through and that your relationship did not work out. The important thing now is for you to take care of yourself so that you will be able to love and take care of the beautiful daughter you will be having. Please do not be afraid to talk with your family. Family members love each other and should be there for you during the good and the bad times. Your family will want to be a part of you and your daughter's life.

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May 16

@Stephyvj same with me..I just wanted him to love and support me..I wanted this to be a time where even though it was unexpected we could make the best of it by being here for each other..but he chose her instead..it’s uncomplicated with her..no baby drama no families to deal with..his sister has even apologized for him and he cant bring it upon himself to give a sincere apology.

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May 16

@Stephyvj I can see what you mean here..I was the same when we were together..afraid that I would say the wrong thing and that he would lash out with rude comments..it did get to be one sided..I kept trying to love him because I felt like I should for the baby..I wanted him with me so we could try to be a family but it just never panned out that way

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