Why do I feel like I will never be the same. The way I use t
chas188
chas188
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50 year old male married 7 years. Last year my wife had an affair over the past year with her ex boy…
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Why do I feel like I will never be the same. The way I use to laugh, think positive feel motivated has been compromised since the affair. I feel drained tired trapped tortured in my own mind. I am in therapy and it helps but I feel i get more support here. Wife is working hard but a long way to go based off yesterday marriage session and the way i think she is still immature with the process. I have a hard time with my intrusive thoughts questioning if my wife really loves me and even when she answers I dont always believe her anymore to wondering why I am trying to work it out. I am Giving myself time to heal but just so torn so uncertain and so angry at having to deal with this ish. Just want to live life learn grow raise ny children. This type of drama without a script not so easy. Helps to hear other stories journeys victories and set backs
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chas188
chas188
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50 year old male married 7 years. Last year my wife had an affair over the past year with her ex boy…
(6030)
Sep 10
@devastatedinptbo i actually used your words to help with our anniversary last week. I told her and marriage counselor not celebrating our anniversary but celebrating our road to healing and recovery! Thats is in fact a new journey I am on regardless the outcome
Chas keep talking with your wife. Tell her the bad and the good. Let her show you remorse. When she is doing it tell her you need that. Never think she can read your mind. Because she can't. I know the hurt is real. But you have a lot of things on your side. You are a strong person. Keep moving forward.
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Sep 14
If she truly does want to work it out. I try ignoring that the situation of infidility ever happened. I know it's hard. I suggest thinking of your couple goals. The future and the positives of being together. In the back of your mind tho if she does it again. Dump her. And I would maybe ask her contribute more. Take care. I hope y'all can make it work. Maybe she had a descrepancy.
