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How do you truly forgive. Never forget but truly forgive don

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How do you truly forgive. Never forget but truly forgive dont think words are enough. Is it in stages is it acts of kindness? Having hard time forgiving the hurt pain due to her bad choices. I dont trust her like I use to dont think i ever will but I want to make peace and truly forgive

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Aug 3

@chas188 I am sorry, I know you have to be so hurt like I am about being betrayed, I know there are men who are faithful I am just saying most of the men I know have cheated. My father in law adores his wife, he would never cheat on her, I thought my husband was like his dad but I was wrong.

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Aug 3

@Mick77 I will never understand why a person would cheat in the first place if they are not happy with the person they are with then why not leave? Why sneak around and hurt the person they are supposed to love? I think they are afraid to be alone and want to keep us as a back up. I feel like my husband used me to take care of him while he was having an affair which makes it even harder to forgive him.

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Aug 4

@Floored I agree completely. Cheaters are insecure and need the security of having someone take care of them while using someone else at the same time. I could personally never do it I’m too empathetic and just know that would make the other person feel worthless and awful if they found out. Again especially in marriage where sacred vows are involved and a union between two people.

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