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Trying to understand what is going on with my narc: Las

Trying to understand what is going on with my narc:

Last weekend I was confronted by the OW that my narc was sleeping with her. The OW was not aware he was in a relationship with me. They apparently had gotten into a fight and at some point she was able to go through his phone.
He leaves her place and comes over to mine- avoiding the narc rage I went to the backyard- he grabbed all of his clothes (we don’t live together), shattered my iPad, took my passport and left. He tried to call me twice but I did not answer.
It’s been a week and there’s been no contact with him. I know he has tried to have/have contact with the OW. He’s painted me out to be insane, but she has our texts so she knows he’s lying.
As I said, all of his important stuff is here, and it seems like if he really wanted to be done he would have gotten them by now. The silence is just killing me, as I know it’s intended to. What’s going on?

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Dec 10, 2018

@Bop thank you for checking in. I think he has started hoovering me? He sent me a text that he needed to contact me and that I wasn’t responding to his texts. I lost control of the no contact and responded and he of course then disappeared. It’s the same cycle over and over. I’ve started therapy which has been really helpful!
How are you?

Dec 10, 2018

@pickone thank you so much!

Dec 10, 2018

@SOSAD7117 You are very welcome!.......


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