I went for an appointment this morning, and this really good

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I went for an appointment this morning, and this really good looking guy walked in. I caught myself staring. Then I started to imagine dating him. So I think I was attracted to him for sure, and my body responded in a way that didn't make me freak out. However, then I thought he might be transgendered, or that I didn't look at him well enough to see if he actually looks like a guy. I also feel guilty having these positive attraction feelings because I have a boyfriend (we are going on 13 years).... How can I have these thoughts about another guy if I'm supposed to be in love with my boyfriend?!

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Oct 12

@Bria869 sorry that I misunderstood!! I should have made that connection!

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Oct 12

@bluebirds141516 no, it's fine... I don't know if I have rocd.

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Oct 13

I have had rocd, and it can be very hard for your boyfriend to understand so make sure you word things right!! Get him to research rocd so he knows you really do love him it's just the thoughts!! Rocd and hocd can interlink but try to keep them separate because I used them as evidence for each other; for example I said "surely I'm questioning my relationship because maybe I'm gay" they're both as destructive as each other but rocd does involve other peoples feelings so can be more upsetting but hocd just attacks your brain non stop. Message me for anything.

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