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I kept dreaming about girls them kissing me kissing them and

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I kept dreaming about girls them kissing me kissing them and then my friends it feels like I like them or random girls it doesn’t feel like anxiety I think of my bf and things don’t feel the same yesterday he sent me a video and I got butterflies and today it feels like if I see him I won’t feel anything today I’m gonna see an ex crush and I got images of me cheating on him :/

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Sep 16

it is perfectly normal even ppl who are straight think the same things. You may genuinely think you are gay because you truly believe you want to act on these thoughts, but one way to tell that these are intrusive thoughts is checking how you react to them. Ask yourself- Do these thoughts make you feel good inside or are you repulsed by them and left feeling empty and sad? Ik it is not really good to try to reassure yourself as that is a compulsion and will prolong your suffering, so if anything I think you should try to think of these thoughts as just thoughts. Any time they come into your head just be like yes my head just told me I want to kiss that girl/boy, but do i actually want to? When you first start trying to recover using this method u may say maybe, but even if you do try to learn to accept it. Ik that in the beginning i was blinded into feeling this way and slowly over time it shifted to me discovering who I really was. To get over my hocd i just tried my best to accept and move on. Just know that it is human nature and we all have to deal with these thoughts. When I was going through HOCD my straight sister even told me that she has gotten these same thoughts about her bffs, and she doesn't even have HOCD. The only difference is she didn't dwell on her thoughts like we do/I did.

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Sep 16

Ohh and also during when I was going through HOCD, i would have the same images run through my mind. I vividly remember waking up from a dream of me kissing my bff and i know this sounds dramatic, but i felt to natious i had to sit over my toilet because i thought i was going to throw up. I genuinely believed i had these feelings and i couldnt bear it. I never put into consideration that these were simply just thoughts.

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Sep 16

@Kate62 I keep commented, but i have to correct myself just in case. By accepting your thoughts i don't mean accepting that you're gay or that you want to cheat on your bf. I mean to accept these thoughts as something you have no control over. Just wanted to clarify that lol.

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