Sad and Angry and Hopeless... because the person who gave me

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Sad and Angry and Hopeless... because the person who gave me herpes, no - the person who lied to me about his STD status & gave me herpes - cut me off after I discovered I was infected. I was mad at him and we argued & he blocked me and then changed his number. It's so unfair that he gets to just walk away from this. From me. It makes me feel extra extra stupid for ever being with him.

So like all that was not enough he emailed me a couple days ago: "go kill yourself." Thats it. Three words. I'm really isolated and feel alone and can't imagine ever being in a relationship again. To think that it's because of someone like him...

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Jun 17

@CapricornGal. I know the system is messed up and then some but having what happened on the record may help deter him from acting on his threats as he would be the prime suspect. Also having a record of what he did can be used if he does it again to someone else. You may not get justice, but will you sleep better knowing you tried? Please be safe. Good luck!

Jun 24

Please message me! I know it sounds crazy but I am a almost 20 year old junior in college and this guy I opened up to and was liking for the past month tricked me, slept with me, gave me hpv and then left! Now I think I might have something else! He completely cut me off and I have been dealing with it on my own. I feel like the only person in the world rn. I’d love to see if maybe we can help each other in this situation! Sending love! -Ainsley

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Jun 25

@Crystalcat you are definitely not the only person. Your guy sounds as despicable as mine. I'm trying not to paint all men with the "ash-whole" brush but it's difficult rn. Really, really difficult. Anywayz, apparently we are supposed to be glad to be rid of the human garbage that was the men we dated. And I am. It just adds this extra layer of feeling bad...
And for me - alone.

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