I think a lot of people on this site need to take a step bac

I think a lot of people on this site need to take a step back and realize they everyone has a different way of processing this and dealing with this. Just because some of you have accepted it and are okay with having it DOSENT mean other people are. I’ve gotten attacked and told i wasn’t educated on the topic and i was wallowing in Self pity because i hadn’t accepted that i have this yet. Like wow, my mind is blown. This is a hard period for me, if you guys don’t like what I’m saying or think I’m engaing in “ to much self pity” then don’t comment on what i have to say, chose not to say anything. I’m getting pissed off because I’m being told how to feel and that’s not right. Just because some of you have been dealing with it for a long time dosent mean i have and it sure as heck dosent mean I’m okay with it.

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_ghjdsfrt_ do not let them bring you down honey. Someone told me to get a grip as well. And trust that its easier said than done and no young woman or man who has the rest of their lives to live wants to be in this situation and we all process differently. I still sometimes burst into a sudden tears given the situation and its been almost 2 years. I have gotten good advice as well, from you also. So you process the way you need to and if other people are over it then great for them but do not judge the way we heal. Please hope you find the strength and courage to keep writing and expressing, best wishes

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Dec 6

@Buttercup_1995 i completely agree with you. It’s a shame that some people can’t do that though. Thank you for your support, I’ve supported you as well , i hope you continue to have better days most of the time

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Dec 6

@SimplyHeartbroken thank you, I’m sorry it’s still sometimes hard for you , you’re a strong person for dealing with it for 2 years though, I’ve only had it for 5 months and i feel like I’m alresdy At my wits end. Thank you for your kind words, i hope you have better days than bad days in the future

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