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I have had an unplanned/unexpected sexual encounter when hea

I have had an unplanned/unexpected sexual encounter when heavily intoxicated and now cannot sleep from worry.

Day 1 after the event there were 3 red spread out bumps on penis head, pain in the penis head and urge to pee often. It would hurt more until I pee. I had what I thought was chaffage on inner thighs and and butt. (I was in a hot wet climate and done walking in jeans so seemed expected).

I was treated by doctor with fucadin and it cleared the dots by day 3 however pain persisted. This was at day 6 so I went to doctor and I was given panderm cream and all symptoms cleared up within another few days.

I had a urinary test carried out which showed no signs of any issue or infection.

Two weeks more weeks past with no symptoms. Then i noticed discoloration of the penis head, a blemish behind the banjo string (forgot name for it) and discoloration of the shaft, quite red. Pain returned to the tip.

I have the chafage like marks in my thighs, redness on my scrotum and buttocks.

At night the pain tends to increase. This time I also feel unwell and flushed but that could be due to my partner having a cold or lack of sleep and worry.

Is there by any hope, chance or will in the world that this is not herpes?

So far ive seen 4 doctors in 3 countries due to need to travel. Doctor 1 examined and give fucadin, Doctor 2 examined and give panderm. Doctor 3 did only urine test. Doctor 4 gave me antibiotics even after seeing test results did not inspect but sure it wasnt serious.

I just dont feel confident based on symptoms and time line.

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[950]
May 17

I am feeling the anxiety rising as my partner and I go on holiday tomorrow and I know she has expectations. I havent had the results back and I can feel the fear of triggering an ob getting stronger.

Anyone have any techniques for relaxing?

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[700]
May 17

I'm in the same boat (relaxation wise, don't know how). Maybe having that talk with your partner will help a bit? Try to find some alternate ways of doing things instead of just intercourse?

I've heard doing breathing techniques with some smell good stuff works too.

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[950]
May 21

Okay so the test results came back and I am showing up as only have hsv 1 (I get cold sores once in a blue moon). Doctor has given me the all clear on gential issues.

I do feel not fully at ease because I have some redness and marks along with occassional tingling but the doctor insists its natural.

Apparently my symptoms were a combination of different conditions that were individually treated via antibiotics and creams. Also stress was an important factor.

For now I am going to sign off as i wouldnt feel right commenting now i am showing clear and want to thank everyone for their support especially to A Survivor for being there so quickly to everyone who joins the group.

Wish everyone the absolute best.

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