I have been seeing this guy and we have had sex only twice.

I have been seeing this guy and we have had sex only twice. The other day, he made a comment that had me very suspicious and I asked if I should get tested. He said "yeah".. literally the next day, I noticed what looks like a lesion on my vagina. I asked him if he was sure he didn't have anything like he said and he called me asking me if I was having symptoms. I finally came out and told him yes after about 30 minutes. He then told me "I lied to you.. I'm so sorry." I asked what he lied about and he said "I had herpe sores on the head of my penis when we had unprotected sex.." I started crying and told him he didn't even give me the choice.. I am only 21 and feel like my whole life is falling to pieces right now. I don't know how to cope with this. I haven't went to the doctors yet, but I know I have it. I am so embarrassed and feel like I'm some nasty infected person. How did you cope with finding out? I feel like I'm forced to be with him now... should I?

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[135]
Feb 19

Thanks! It's been the biggest struggle adjusting but I'm slowly getting better. I'm still learning to accept and love myself. I just know I never want to be like him. I don't understand how someone can do what he did, and still does, and not care how it affects people.

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[135]
Feb 19

@Thegirl_95 I felt that way too. I've tried to take the time to tell myself positives things since I like to beat myself up too much. Stay strong!!!

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Feb 19

@ScorpioWomen1920 I'm most definitely trying!

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