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Hi everyone, I just had an outbreak, and its really bad, it

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Hi everyone, I just had an outbreak, and its really bad, it hurts so much. (It is the first outbreak I even remember in the last 20 years, in fact)...But what concerns me more is the fact that the outbreak was triggered by me having (unprotected) sex. and although my partner knows I have herpes, I don't think he has it and I am beside myself with fear and sadness that I just gave it to him. Does anyone have any experience with having a breakout the day after sex, and whether their partner actually got herpes? My situation is weird, as our relationship is really only for sex, and I wasn't supposed to be seeing him anymore, and I had just spent the last 6 months grieving his loss, after the breakup. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this. I fear he has a long term partner, (that he denies having), and now he is going to have to tell her he got herpes. All because of me. I love the guy, and I don't want him to be burdened with this the rest of his life. I know it is not the right thing to have done, unprotected sex, and two, the fact he is in a committed relationship with someone else, but he did tell me all along he is single. I'm pretty sure he is lying tho. Its been three years of being with him, so I fell in love, and now I have ruined his life.

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Jul 22

@ElaraCal not yet I am still thinking what to do - he knows I have herpes, I told him that long ago.

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I need help. I have horrible body pain and burning and an overall feeling like I have a disease. My eyes have changed and everything. I tested HSV1 positive, but the Dr. told me it's just cold sores, However my bag has been on fire all year. Do you have these problems, can you help me?

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Jul 25

I'm so sorry to hear, I never get whole body pain, it is more localized in the gential area. as far as the eyes go, I have read online the virus can infect the eyes, on rare occurrences. I don't know if this is true. You could have another STI in combination, or something totally unrelated. Good luck and I hope you get some answers soon

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