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Help, I am so traumatised and in pain. For the past couple


Help, I am so traumatised and in pain.
For the past couple of weeks I have been in agony ? UTI ? Thrush ? Cystitis
I couldn’t wee without pouring water on myself as the pain was too unbearable, I went to see my Gp yesterday and she thinks and she swabbed me for herpes, I am devastated, I have been with my husband for 15 years and I know he played away at the beginning of our relationship.
Yesterday I sent him a message asking him to be honest with me if he had slept with anyone, he took 9 minutes to reply ‘no never’ I never asnwered his message I felt numb as I didn’t believe him, it took him 15 minutes for him to call me with some ****** tone ‘what’s going on’
I have never not once looked at another man
I feel numb I feel like I’m breaking inside, I have a 19 year old dtr from a previous relationship and a 10 year old son with my husband
He’s given me the silent treatment not even when I broke my heart and I know he could hear me
I haven’t done anything and I feel like I’m being punished, I’m broken

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CKBlossom's picture
Jan 12, 2018

How are you doing today hun? Still in a lot of pain?

Jan 12, 2018

No it’s eased a lot, spots have gone but there is a lot of tingling going on around that area, top of thighs and the base of my spine, it’s really odd, where’s I feel itchy results haven’t come back yet so I have all weekend to stress about it, husband hasn’t really spoke to me he’s not really communicative really and I fear if we do it will kick off, Plus my little lad is around I don’t want to put him through it x
Thank you for asking me xx

Annairbua's picture
Jan 14, 2018

I’m so sorry I can’t Believe that. How is your pain doing now?


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