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Hello everyone, I just got off the phone with my man. I tol

Faith777's picture
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Hello everyone, I just got off the phone with my man. I told him that I have HSV2. It was the hardest thing ever. I didn't know "how" I was going to bring up this conversation or "when" however, all I knew is that I needed to do so now. I was not as prepared for the worse as I don't even know how I would have even prepared for the worse. I was nervous about how he would respond; what he would think; would he break up with me and so forth. I was shaking at times; crying off and on; my chest was hurting from anxiety. I could go on and on. I will keep this short because I am emotionally worn out. Our conversation didn't go negative as I thought. I even felt more comfortable the more we talked. His response really showed even more how much he loves me and is in love with me. It hit him hard as he wasn't expecting any of this news tonight. We talked and discussed more about what HSV2 is and how we can protect ourselves as he doesn't have HSV. Also, we talked about our future and more. He stayed calm our entire time talking. He was very understanding. He told me that he is still in love with me. He still loves me. He still wants to be with me. I am just relieved. We have future plans in being married and spending our life together before I talked to him about HSV. I can barely keep my eyes open. It's 5:21a though but I still need to go to sleep.

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Faith777's picture
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Jan 19

@a_survivor Hello, Happy New Year!!!! How are you doing? I am finally getting back in the support group. Yes, you sure did tell me and for so long, you knew I was thinking...no way. This won't happen to me. No one us going to want me. You also told me to be very patient and leave and/or don't get into any toxic relationship. You told me to focus on myself and everything will fall into place. You were so right even though I didn't want to hear that, LOL! I'm glad I did wake up and smell the coffee and took your advice. Then later unexpectedly what you said would happen one day, it did. We're still happily together!

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Faith777's picture
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Jan 19

@Holdingontohope0716 I'm glad!!! I needed hope along time ago and all I can say is to not give up. If a man loves you, he will be understanding and would want to stay with you. I think the hardest part is telling a man in the beginning when things are starting to get serious. This is usually when we feel more comfortable to open up. Trying to figure out how to tell him is even harder. It's always better to tell someone sooner than later because if not, they will think you were hiding something serious all along and how can they trust you. That type of negativity will rise and that is not what anyone wants to happen. You will be just fine. Never stop hoping.

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a_survivor's picture
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Jan 19

@Faith777
welcome back and thank you for sharing your travels with us!
and thanks again for helping any and all here that need help! now YOU are living proof and can help those who are in dire straights!

thanks from checking back and of course your support! XOXOXO!

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