Has anyone else ever disclosed their status with someone tha

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Has anyone else ever disclosed their status with someone that they are dating and the person doesn’t want to do oral on you but they want you to do oral on them? I’m not sure if I have been coming across selfish men or if they have a problem with my diagnosis at this point? Are people out here really thinking that you can’t get it doing certain kinds of sex? I feel like if they feel weird about any part of sex that we shouldn’t be touching each other period. Advice needed. Thank you.

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Oct 12

Not only selfish but also stupid. because the fact that you have oral herpes you can pass it to them through oral sex. So in terms of them I would not even entertain them

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[2390]
Oct 13

Yeah totally agree. If they can get hsv1 from you doing oral and want that to happen, but don't want to perform oral on you even with protection that's not cool.

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[60]
Oct 13

@lisajd Exactly. And thank you very much. Sometimes, I just need someone to tell me that it’s ok for me to say no. I had this situation recently, and I explained this to him and he got really weird when I said ‘no, we do nothing without protection’. Thank you very much for your advice.

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