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Well don't know what to say just that this sucks . I'm 56 no


Well don't know what to say just that this sucks . I'm 56 now lost my wife in April 2018 and I'm still lost , I'm missing her voice the twinkle of her eyes her sweet smile every morning with a kiss. I'm 56 not old and not young it's like what the hell I have maybe 10 or 20 years to wait to be with her again . well 10 months has passed and many times it hurts bad . to let you know I say god has a plan and I will go with that for he knows my plans . But what the hell I don't know it so I sit and wait lots of love to you all.

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Feb 26

I'm so sorry for your loss, friend. My heart goes out to you at this time. I know how difficult and painful it must be for you. Losing our loved ones is very hard, and the impact of such losses is deep. Each of us deal with loss in our own unique way. The journey can be complex, and wounded hearts take time to heal. I just said a prayer for you, and I hope that God will surround you with His comfort and heal you whenever you hurt. I'd suggest that you talk to a grief counselor. You might also want to check out the book: When You Lose Someone You Love by Richard Exley. Please know that you can always come here to share and you will find a lot of help and support. I know it's not easy but stay strong. Hugs!

Mar 14

Thank you all for the kind words you shared. I would like to say the feeling inside are all tangled up, my wife passed away April 11- 2018 as you know. My Mom passed away May 29-2018 she was 82yrs old. I know my Mom lived a long life my wife at 57yrs old is too young for me it’s very confusing. I’m numb inside why can’t I grieve for my Mom it’s always for my wife, I love my Mom but my wife was my world and the mother of my two adult children. So I don’t know what hurts more, I cry for both mostly my wife. I know we all must leave this world one day so I just want to say love hurts, it leaves a hole in your heart. Without love in the world there will be no hurt for the heart to suffer. It’s going on one year for both of them and it’s very hard, I will have to say it’s really hard to leave my house and come back. It’s like what am I coming back for it’s just an empty house and that hurts a lot. I don’t know I have to find myself and keep going. Thank You for reading Lots of Love to you all. Venting.

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Mar 15

@tovent I'm glad to hear from you. Losing someone we love does leave a hole in our heart that cannot be filled with anyone but that person. The good news is that we can have that hole filled. It is possible. Have you thought about taking a look at the brochure I mentioned before? It gives real hope that will help you keep going. Let me know if you want me to give you the link. Keep in touch. I'm here for you.


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