It's Monday here and not much work for me in the office. Som

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It's Monday here and not much work for me in the office. Something has been bothering me during the weekend and I want to hear your open minded opinion as always: Long Distance Relationship, me and my beautiful gf. Overdue for meeting. We have been dating since January. We were supposed to meet last month but due to some family issues and gf preparing for exams, we rescheduled to this coming month end. That's just a background. Here is my concern, When do you tell your partner about healthy related issues???, its not an Sexual Transmitted " STD" (not that I'm planning to have sex with her already, lol I'm old school kind of girl who treasure her bed, just saying) but it's generation kind of thing and it bothers me cause I have tried to treat it but the treatment wasn't successful unfortunately.

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North45's picture
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Jun 19

@CKBlossom yes I have been waiting a long time but situations just come up and there is nothing I can actually do to push this meeting. But we are planning it soon and you will sure hear about all of it. How about we go general with my situation and help with the question of When?

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Jun 20

@North45 As far as general advice, just tell her, that way if you freak her out, you still haven't met. Hopefully it won't and you can meet at some point, but the longer you wait, the worse it will be received as it will seem like you are ashamed or wanted to hide it from her.

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North45's picture
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Jun 20

@CKBlossom thank you. I will consider telling her soon.

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