I am scared. I feel vulnerable like my heart will be ripped

North45's picture
[2810]

I am scared. I feel vulnerable like my heart will be ripped apart. I have never felt like this in my entire life. I had many relationships before but I never felt like I had anything to lose. I didn’t even care whether the person gave me attention or not. But I feel like I am emotionally drowning (If this is how falling in love feels like, I don’t know if I can handle it). I wake up in the morning and I think about her, how she slept, if she was doing okay. It driving me insane. I don’t know. Like really don’t know how to handle this. ADVICE PLEASE FROM PEOPLE WHO KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT cos if I don’t get my feelings and emotions in order I may screw up this good thing.

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cocookie's picture
[7280]
Dec 7

From what I just read from your list I am taking it you have just come out of a relationship?
If this is the case then here is my advice I can give to you. I went through a break up in June. The first week my life was in pieces, rock bottom. Then the second week it got better. I found that I needed to love myself and work on myself to help me get through it. I saw friends as often as I could and I took up yoga. Yoga was a great way for me to escape. I also planned two weeks holiday and a weekend away which kept my mind off things. I know all you want is to have that person back in your life and you’d give anything to get what you want. But if you want them back and it’s truely what you believe is right for your happiness. Then give that person space, they need time away from you and need time to think. Overwhelming them will just push them back even more. So take this time for you and your happiness.

I really hope this makes senses and I am on topic.. if not im sorry

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North45's picture
[2810]
Dec 7

@cocookie Hi. Thanks but No, I think you misread my post. I am in a relationship.

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cocookie's picture
[7280]
Dec 7

@North45 completely my bad!

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