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My anger, disappointment, and unhappiness stem from three sp

My anger, disappointment, and unhappiness stem from three specific things: 1. My partner having sex with anyone who isn’t me, which apparently there have been a lot that aren’t me. 2. Wasted money on prostitutes and overdrafts that should be going to our future or his help, which is in the thousands. 3. The lying about either or both situations, which implies that I’m stupid.
They are all part of the same problem, but they are each different things that put up a different wall that helps tear me down.
Today it was finding out he is $3,500+ in debt.
I can be patient while we both seek help and support regarding his sex with others. I’m less patient about watching any future get thrown into a steaming pile of debt. Where is the boundary if he can’t handle his money through it? Do I just let that keep occurring, or what can I do to put something in the way of one wall?

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