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I just realized the perfect representation of my marriage. J

I just realized the perfect representation of my marriage. Jenga. He's been removing pieces of the foundation for 3 years. A few months ago he snuck off for 50 minutes and picked a fight with me when I confronted him about the GPS picking it up. That fight was the piece that brought the pile crashing down. Now I'm trying to figure out if I want to rebuild it or put it in the box.

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Dec 6

If he is a sex addict is he getting the proper help he needs. If he is good for him. If he is not this is bad for you and your family. If he wants to screw his life up with his addiction that is one thing but taking you down with him is another.


He is new in the recovery process. He's trying but I've been warned by other addicts and therapists to expect slips. I walk a tight rope witth divorce on one side and rebuilding on the other. There are pros and cons for both.

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Dec 6

@Betrayedbyasexaddict if he is working to stop, that is great, many can't stop or think of recovery. They continue and ruins everything. You don't need to rush the decision, it is not easy to end a relationship. Many people work on their partners for years and years. Keep working on progress,even little ones all the time. Yes there will likely be set backs, but that should mean to stop making progress.


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