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I feel so lonely right now. My ex girlfriend of 3 years bro

I feel so lonely right now. My ex girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me - I say 3 years but she broke up with me so many times I have lost count. This time she accused me of being an addict and left me. She was with another guy within a week and it has left me devastated.

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[32450]
Sep 15

So sorry she has broken up with you. Loneliness after breakup is so hard! Sorry also she accused you of something that wasn't true, and I can well understand how much it must hurt that she was with another guy within a week. One thing I found useful was to experiment with feeling anger instead of hurt over the breakup, as she was cruel to you. Also crying really helps - it's the body's way of discharging the grief. Also, there are websites and books. Please google "recovery from breakup." Best of luck to you.

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[45]
Sep 15

@L2015 Thank you! At first I was hopeful that BPD was treatable but it is a lifelong mental illness and I can't be worth her anymore as much as I want to.

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[32450]
Sep 16

It sounds like you put a lot of work into understanding her condition and making adjustments in your behavior to make the relationship work. That's admirable. I'm sorry she was too troubled to be in a healthy relationship, and I'm sorry for the grief you're left with. I hope you will recover soon, and will find a loving partner soon!

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