I have been married for over 7 years, we never really had an

I have been married for over 7 years, we never really had an issue with him being or getting aroused I can only think of maybe one or two times he couldn't perform and I didn't think much of it but recently it has been every time we try to be intimate he has swears its not me but I cant help but to think it is since it was never an issue up until he said he was watching pornography and that could be it but he has always watched it help!

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(2465)
Jan 20

I'm confident it isn't you! You are in the same boat that so many partners of ED are. See my comments to Spadaz below...ED is much more common than most people think and it is caused by so many different things. Just try to be very open and supportive about it and try to keep that communication channel open. We are very fortunate in this day and age that there are things that can really help. Is he on any medications that may be contributing to the problem, does he smoke or drink, diabetes, nerve or back issues, overweight, blood flow issues, age. Viagra or Cialis may help? Some guys have good results using a pump combined with a c*ck ring or even two. Has he tried anything? Been to a doctor or urologist?

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(20)
Jan 20

Hasn't seen Doc yet we have tried talking but he does not open up and idk what eles to do Im so torn thank you for the advice.

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(2465)
Jan 21

ED is hard to cope with and admit defeat that there is a problem and seek help. It also makes a guy feel a bit less of a man and is hard to be open about. Try to love, encourage and support him into trying to get help.

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