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Hello. I am new. In desperate need of help and support. My h

Hello. I am new. In desperate need of help and support. My husband has ED. Its been about a year and I feel like I am dead inside. We have been married 14 years. He has just turned 50 and I am 45. We have always had an amazing marriage and sex life and now I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Oct 12

It is a massive thing to seek help for. But I have found that it will get worse if he does nothing.
There are loads of pills that he can take.
It completely turned me off sex for quite awhile until I could see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Oct 18

We are both in our early 60's and my husband has suffered with ED for the past 5 years in increasing severity. The more he tried to please me the more he failed. We talked about possible solutions and tried various prescribed medications but nothing helped. He had discussed the situation with a very good male friend and jokingly considered the friend could be a substitute. After a while the joking became a serious discussion and I was bought into the picture. The first time we 'got together' was as a threesome and was little traumatic but nevertheless was very enjoyable. My husband was actively involved in the foreplay and was close during the entire lovemaking. I felt very close to him. The three of us meet regularly now and the friend is almost 'part of the family'. Conclusion: All three of us are happy and unstressed. My husband has occasionally been able to get a partial erection, enough for penetration for a short time. Our relationship is stronger than it has been for a long time. (The friend is a widower).

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Nov 13



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