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Just discovered my relationship of three years was not what

Just discovered my relationship of three years was not what I thought. He was married with children. He used emotional manipulation to control me. I'm in counseling for it now, my therapist says he's textbook. How did I miss this? Any ideas on not blaming yourself for you exes lies? Or for not seeing them sooner?

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Round3's picture
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Jun 12

The key to revenge in knowing you can if you want, and choosing not to. As for being angry, you have every right to be angry. Instead of stuffing the anger use it to stay strong. I'm not saying acting out. I'm saying feel the feelings. They are all legitimate.

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Jun 13

Thanks guys. I am trying to accept all my emotions and I am angry for the first time. I know it is a cycle and that I am going to feel lots of things. My actions are what I choose not my feelings.

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Round3's picture
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Jun 13

Well said. We must feel the feelings but we can choose how we react to them. Also, anger is one of the stages of grief. It's a legitimate feeling.

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