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I finally managed to separate from my husband just over 2 we

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I finally managed to separate from my husband just over 2 weeks ago. And it is so hard, I know it is the right thing to do, but another part of my head is screaming at me to run straight back and apologize and ask for forgiveness for leaving etc even though I know the way he treated me was not right at all, but it is so draining having those 2 conflicting ideas in my head. To make things worse he sent me this message last night:
Every time I see you it reminds me of how much I loved you and what I have lost.
I can't understand why you would want to give up, or that I have made you hate me.
My heart Will mend one day but it sucks it has to. Love your Ex
All the best for your future endeavours. night

What am I meant to do with that? It just makes my head spin.

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Nov 9

@Scat yeah emotionally and psychologically abusive. But I still love him. Crazy making stuff right there.

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Nov 9

@Bmk, yes that's abusive and there is no excuse. He may have grown up with parents doing that and couldn't even begin to know how to stop. So he may end up doing it to his own children. It's terrible and you deserved better.

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Nov 9

@Scat , I think that is what has given me the strength to leave. For my daughter, I don't want her to grow up thinking the way he treats me is normal but actually wrong, and she should never have to put up with been treated badly by someone who says they love her. Sad it took me so long to come to this conclusion for myself. But trying to look forwards, not backwards.

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