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I am feeling so frustrated, because my husband seems to crit

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I am feeling so frustrated, because my husband seems to criticize me for almost everything I do. It seems that I can't do anything right..And I don't know what to do, because I can't criticize him and telling him how I feel doesn't seem to work either. I am wondering if any one here has any advice for me in how to deal with an insensitive husband that doesn't sympathize with my needs and my feelings.

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Aug 12

@trisam Thank you for your response..It does get lonely, but we haven't had any fights in a long time. I am glad that there are people here that cherish me. I am thinking of seeing a counselor just for me not for couples's counseling.

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Aug 13

@graceforeverandever Thank you for your thoughtful and caring response. My husband started being this way after we got married, because while we were dating he didn't act this way towards me. However he did grow up with an verbally abusive father so I kind of think that's where he got it from. I was never that fond of my father-in-law who passed away many years ago. I don't attend church, but have considered talking to a professional about my marriage..

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Aug 13

Dear, I dealt with the same thing for way too long and know how you feel. I'm so sorry for anyone that has to go through this. Mine used to criticize everything.. Good or bad things I did, thought or said. Always turned things around to be bad. And blamed it on financial stress. I lost myself in that relationship and really do wish you the best. Too much of that treatment chips away at your self esteem and confidence so please be mindful and aware. Counseling for yourself would be the best start and if your husband truly wants to change he will make the choice to get into counseling himself, but he has to want it or it won't go any good. Very important to take care of yourself right now, practice self care. Plus support groups like this one are so helpful :)

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