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Hello! I went at two therapists because I was hurt of my boy

Hello! I went at two therapists because I was hurt of my boyfriend’s behaviour and both of them told me that my bf is a narcissist. When I tried to talk to him about that, he said that he understands and that he is sorry about that and that he will try to be better, to solve his problems, but after a few days, when he developed the same abusive behaviour, I reminded him of our conversation and he said “This is not true. This is stupid. I don’t have any problems. You have” and so on... I am sure that he is a narcissist, he has all the symptoms. The worst are the fact that he thinks he’s always right and I’m wrong and the fact that he always puts him first and he NEVER understands me. When he does something wrong to me, at first he says “I’m sorry” but after idk 20-30 minutes, he starts to be angry, to yell at me, to break glasses and things in the house and he keeps telling me “There’s nothing wrong with me. You are crazy. I am too good for you. I did nothing wrong” and so on. It kills me inside. His behaviour is very confusing for me. I mean, at first he acts like he’s sorry (which I’m sure he’s not, he just says that in order for me to forgive him for what he did, otherwise he wouldn’t be sorry just for 30 minutes) and then it’s like he becomes another person... who doesn’t realize the fact that he’s wrong and that his behaviour is destructive. Sometimes he doesn’t even bother to say sorry, he just starts screaming at me for being upset with him... I really don’t know what to do anymore... I can’t just stand there and tolerate his bad behaviour. I can see that his behaviour is very bad but he won’t accept that and it kills me inside. I can’t sleep, I can’t study, I can’t do anything. I just want, for once, to be acknowledged and understood... Can narcissists change? How can you make a narcissist realize that he is the one who has a problem, and not the others?

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zee4ward's picture
[19565]
Mar 13

@Scat Funny because I just tried to get into a Divorce Care Group but they are just finishing up. Not starting again until September. I will attend then.

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[198315]
Mar 14

@zee4ward, if you got on their DivorceCare.org email list you'll get nice encouraging emails to help you thru.

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zee4ward's picture
[19565]
Mar 14

@Scat Thank you Scat, I will do that. I need to.

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