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Sucks when I catch my mom and realize she is doing it on pur

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Sucks when I catch my mom and realize she is doing it on purpose. She held the phone and spoke in hindi so they could understand, "you dont want to talk to them?" To make herself look like the victim in front of my grandfather and that I dont want to talk to them. And then i talked to them of course. She forced me, and right before she made sure I was in a terrible mood. As i took the phone and walked away I could hear her violently slapping herself and obviously I was really upset and felt horrible and disturbed as she did that. I cant put a name to what she did or how. I really dont want to sit here and cry but i cant go home becaudr she is there. I slipped out after talking to my grandmother. I was happy to talk to my grandparents. But shr always asks as jm about to get ready to leave in a passive aggressive way and even before i eat anything or have breakfast. I cant put a finger on what upsets me i just feel like dying. I dont know how to escape. I can only call them when she's home because it's on her phone plan. My phone is under her name as well. So i can only call them when she does, i either have to ask her and she will punish me with telling me how much they ask about me every time. O if i say yes she guilt trips me and if i say bo she guilt trips me. I hate her. I feel guilty for hating her. But sometimes i hate her. Simultaneously feel sad and understand. She just doesnt know what to do. I dont know what my problem is. It isnt her fault. I just want to run really far away but theres no roads to escape.

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Jun 14

@Jdavis5933 Yeah and then you are the "bad" guy. they are hateful and judgmental and so you avoid them and yet you are the bad guy? My son told me to say Fck what others think. I tell myself that. Still it is hell when I have to go to functions, be judged, and then talked about later. Puke. Good on you for NOT going. :)

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Jun 15

@mamabear3 - ouch. I'm so sorry. I've had similar experiences. I've been to the ER for severe dehydration from an illness where I couldn't stop vomitting. Sometimes the brain can send wrong signals to the body resulting in cyclical vomitting. I just wanted an IV -- a few bags so that I could be hydrated enough that the headache would go away and I could function. They kept pushing drugs on me instead. They were trying to get me to go home. Ironically, the opioids were causing the vomitting because I don't tolerate them. I feel for you. I knew that with all that's been in the news, people/ non-drug addicts would be denied pain medication. And, you just had kidney surgery!! That kind of pain of being cut open is torture. You must have felt like you were in a 5th world country. In addition to being in pain, then you get anxiety (maybe c-ptsd even) because the person you count on to care for you is crazy and cruel.
Some people cannot be reasonable and think about things in a case by case basis. So sorry you experienced that.

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Jun 15

We often know what we need more than medical professionals that have no idea about our particular health issues. I can’t believe they were so ignorant to not give you what you needed. Makes me very angry. I have seen nursing in particular go downhill big time. Supposedly we have some of the top medical care in the country. Still can’t get over that cold witch telling me she never even took Tylenol as if that was relevant? I was extremely happy to get out & was bedridden for 2 weeks. I also can’t believe they would not listen to you. You knew what you needed. I try very hard to stay well to stay out of dealing with horrible quality of health care.

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