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I’m new to this group as well. A little about me... I am

I’m new to this group as well. A little about me...
I am a 40 yr old who is utterly lost and stuck.
I have been with my boyfriend for over 17 years and I believe he has narcissistic tendencies .. I love him and hate him at the same time . He wasn’t always like the way he is now.. I think that is why I am still here..
I have no family or friends .. I have found that he has isolated me so badly I am all alone .
He is in an episode currently where he thinks I cheated with some random guy. I did no such thing .. he spray painted the doors with nasty messages and he moved some of my furniture to the corner of the living room... breaking some things in the process.. whenever I repaint he spray paints over it .. when I move the furniture back he puts back in the corner ..
why can’t I get the courage to leave .. is there anyone who has advice on how to make him stop being so nasty?

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Daniel1018's picture
Dec 1

@Scat when you begin to leave and they lose more and more control, their behavior will become more irrational and bizarre.

cajuncamaro's picture
Dec 2

i would be too tempted to see how far he wants to play copy cat. lol put peanut butter in your hair

Dec 3

@Daniel1018, Oh, thank you for warning me. That's what I was afraid of because I'm stuck here til we sell the house because he can't afford spousal support til we sell. His girlfriend next door is bizarre as h*ck.


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