NEED ADVICE: I think it's a bit weird that my brother is the

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NEED ADVICE: I think it's a bit weird that my brother is the only person in my life who comes over to the house and almost expects me to meet him at the door to lock it behind him as if he canr lock the door on his way out?? When hes about to leave and I'm in my room he'll call me out of my room to come lock the door and I just dont get why he doesnt lock the bottom lock and shut the darn door...? I kinda feel.like maybe he tried to talk to me or something but he never does each time it happens, he just seems to expect it. Mom doesn't even do this, she'll lock the bottom lock and close the door on her way out I think like most people do lol. But my brother does this a lot where instead of doing that he'll basically has me meet him at the door and I have to watch him walk out and then I lock the door behind him. I really hate it because something tells me it's an entitlement thing but I'm so hypervigilant that I dont wanna seem reactive. I just find it strange that I donr get that treatment from anyone. I don't even do that when I leave my friends house like... what? Lol

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PeppermintSunrise's picture
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Jun 14

@bebobaBetty there may be stranger things in the world but this is happening in my.house, a place I live. You might not see it because you're not here but I do. I cant control the world but I can have a say so at my door step. These are people who have looked out for each other while screwing me over and I might not be able to comprehend what my mom does but clearly no one can comprehend how that effects me or someone else. I can lock my own lock, I dont need someone to lock it for me. I'm sorry you think its him protecting me but as long as I know I've asked him for help and he tells me to not be a beggar like mom even tho hes the only one using people? Yeah there are stranger things and his behavior, something you dont have to deal with is strange. I've seen my mom lock the door on the way out to go to the store while leaving a man at home with me that i didnt even know nor was he a legal citizen here. There are always "stranger things" that happen in this world especially in households, the less likely place one would look and unless someone tells it you wont know about it

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Jun 14

@PeppermintSunrise
Write down all your important phone numbers off your devices in case your devices crash.

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andine's picture
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Jun 14

@PeppermentSunrise is a member here asking for our support because she is suffering from emotional abuse, narc and sibling issues. If the abusive narc cannot treat his sister and mother with 100% respect then he should stay home with his fiancé and children practicing how to lock doors. This discussion I believe is about emotional abuse, manipulation, control and financial abuse. Sincere Prayers for his soon to be wife and children who are likely also being abused. (Gaslighting takes many forms: all I’m asking her to do is lock the door, what’s the big deal? She is crazy and overreacting.) Trust the victim

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