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I did something last night that was an irresponsible decisio

Yankeegirl71's picture
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I did something last night that was an irresponsible decision. It’s with my narcissistic friend but he knows I have feelings for him. He made it obvious now that he does not care about me at all. Bad enough, he doesn’t feel the same about me but My friend has a serious drinking problem. he’s been doing good. Working out and limiting his drinking to the weekend. He invited me and my son out to hang in this area where there is a dj, etc. Night started out fine..then wanted to go to another area. it was fun at first until he started acting inappropriate. Dancing sexually with women who he claimed are friends and he paid me no mind then wondered why I was upset. He wanted to take off with his friend, so tells me I need to go home. I loaned him the last of my money and I had to pay 40.00 for a cab. Ridiculous. I called him and he lied saying I got him locked up and I can hear his friends in the background. Then he is going to the city! He’s broke but has money to go to the city. Smh. I realize now that I don’t love him. I’m obsessed and the only way to rid myself of the obsession is to go no contact. I’m ashamed for bringing my teenager, but now I know without a shadow of a doubt he can’t be trusted. He will ditch me for friends at any opportunity, but then talk sh** about them behind their back. Same that he does with me I’m sure. He started working out and got a compliment so now he thinks he’s gods gift. But he blamed me for getting upset with him in front of my son. i had every. right-to feel hurt, betrayed, etc. Then he tells me he’s never been dumped because girls see he’s a nice guy. Everyone has been dumped. He’s so full of himself it’s disgusting

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Littlesis7's picture
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Nov 13

I'd say if he has a serious drinking problem and he's not properly getting help (AA, etc...online meetings) then that addiction is seriously affecting every decision he's attempting to make rt now.
I don't know how many times I've heard this SAD story about ppl who USED to be a great guy, etc...
They are full of pride and sounds like he hasn't dropped "low enough" (maybe when ALL his money/friends are gone?!) to realize the only way is...UP.
They usually end up in the hospital bc their bodies just cant make it anymore.
He is going to seriously miss out on your friendship and communication. You are wise not to put up w/that kind of abuse anymore...his loss!

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Yankeegirl71's picture
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Nov 20

@Littlesis7 He Is seriously self destructing. You are right about how he used to be a good guy...a couple years before we met. He made a bad decision with that person..it’s sad, because now he will miss out on someone who is actually a good person and mentally stable. He is very aloof most of the time, but I do know he puts on a good act to get attention from women. Only a matter of time before she finds out. What is wrong is how he flaked on a date with a girl due to lack of money, and openly told me he isn’t looking for a relationship. So why waste someone’s time with a date and get to know someone? That told me 110% what kind of guy he is. So he will string along women for attention...most women want a relationship not just a date going nowhere...oh well, that’s his problem

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Littlesis7's picture
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Nov 21

@Yankeegirl71 yeah I agree w you - he is showing all his cards by his lack of relationship interest...there may ppl who just want to hook up I guess but that generally leads to so much idk...hopelessness?
So true...it IS his problem.

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