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The Following Excerpt Provides Insight Into The Sadistic Nat

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The Following Excerpt Provides Insight Into The Sadistic Nature Of The High-Level Narcissist. The Ego Has Replaced The Soul. The Victim’s Pain Is The Narcissist’s Pleasure:

“The narcissist gets a huge ego boost from thinking that two people (the current spouse and the secret lover) are “madly in love” with them. Plus they get off on being able to pull something off right under the victim’s nose. The narcissist will fly into a rage that you could possibly think he would ever cheat on you and turn the tables so you end up apologizing for accusing them or for some other “crime” you committed months or years ago. Their crimes are brushed under the carpet while yours are always brought up and never forgiven, even crimes you never committed, or even thought about committing.”

Can You Relate To This In Your Past Or Current Narcissistic Relationship?........

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Aug 18

This!!!!! This is EXACTLY what I went through for years!!! I was always accused of things I didn’t or one mistake I made in the beginning that I came clean about. But he never dropped it as he continued to have girl after girl behind my back and would fight with me if I ever brought it up. But the cell phone records were clear!!! I’m in such a better place outside of that relationship and so happy I found the strength to leave!!! When the strength came over me, I had the biggest sigh of relief I’ve ever felt!!

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Aug 18

@decisionstomake You are more than welcome!... I am so glad that what I wrote resonated with you. It’s a giant relief to finally know for certain that it was not you all along. Malignant narcissists are the worst because they have psycho/sociopathic traits combined with narcissistic traits. This means they have no conscience or moral compass; in other words they feel nothing for other people, who are just objects to them. They may know there is a right and wrong, but they don’t care because they feel nothing. No empathy, guilt, or remorse for hurting others. In fact some get pleasure from the pain, confusion, and doubt they’re able to instill in others. I know it’s a very long time to have to face the harsh reality that your life was based on a lie. But it wasn’t you who was lying, cheating, and deceiving your partner. It wasn’t your fault and you can’t blame yourself. This level of narcissist is severely pathological, diabolical, and for all practical purposes, lacking a soul and humanity. It’s almost impossible for a normal thinking and feeling person to comprehend that someone who looks and acts so normal at times, can be so inhuman in reality. We need to accept that it was beyond our control, let go of the anger and blame at ourselves, and be grateful that we are not like them. We are capable of loving and forgiveness, and it needs to start with ourselves........

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Aug 18

@adunlap629 I can so relate to the accusing you of things you never did, including cheating. Most were things he was guilty of doing, or planned to do. But one of the worst things to deal with psychologically, was the passive-aggressiveness, which is a trait that most covert narcissists have. He’d hold the rage in for sometimes months, and then during a fight or argument, explode and throw things up in my face that happened ages ago. Most of the issues would’ve been long forgotten, but they never let you live anything down. It’s so bizarre how similar the patterns are; mind-boggling!........

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