Happy 2020!!!
"The best is yet to come."
-Frank Sinatra

I have been having suicidal thoughts. I hate my life.

jaimers01's picture
[2175]

I have been having suicidal thoughts. I hate my life.

Comment
 32
View 29 More Comments
jaimers01's picture
[2175]
Dec 9

@Rdan how do I know of it is too late to salvage? I know he feels I do not respect him and he is right I have not been respecting him. He has not left me but he refuses to talk to me so I have been busy trying to work on myself to get him to trust me again... If that makes sense

Reply
Rdan's picture
[7605]
Dec 9

@jaimers01 You are in a crisis. I f you were to talk what would you say" We often bury things and don't tell it all. Do you have a "safe" place to talk. The athletic club jacuzzi was apace where we could bring up any and every topic - without repercussions. I've had a lot of issues to work through - but ultimately I had to face my Creator and have a heart to heart. That's a pretty sobering thought. But if you look at him and think he really is a a piece of sh*t. You should let go. You will never be able to be what he needs. If you do not respect many of the things he does but you look at him and say to yourself " he's hard working, he --------, he ____________" and you may not like him but you respect him there may be a slim chance if he's willing to meet your love needs. Here's the thing if you don't respect him and he doesn't intimately communicate with you sex is out of the question your need(s) is not met and neither are his love need #3. Your gut will tell you if you are in a difficulty with your relationship or if you've hooked up with a bottom feeder. Did I miss the point?

show more ⇓
Reply
[1305]
Dec 10

@Cynnerjane this is really beautiful. I totally agree with you on that!

Reply

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account