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Hi Everyone! I live with my abusive and narcissistic moth

Maria199's picture
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Hi Everyone!

I live with my abusive and narcissistic mother. I am 27 years old and the only reason i stay is because im scared about what will happen to my gramma who also lives with us and my mom is verbally and mentally abusive to her.

My mother has her ways and makes us feel guilty everytime we try to move away.

Just a couple days ago she tried to hit me because i confronted her about throwing away my food.

Im fed up and want to start living a happy normal life.

Is it normal to feel bad and scared of leaving? Shes the only parent i have left but she never shows any affection or love and will tell all your “secrets” to others and throw it back at you.

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Maria199's picture
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Dec 3

@Mighty_mert thanks! I understand all of that. I guess i am little afraid. We arent in good terms. And if i move i wont be welcome back ever again if things do not work out in my relationship. Not that i am saying it wont but it is still a talk that is responsible to have in terms of what happens if we dont work out and having a plan. So i guess i use my grammas home (which my mom lives in but refuses to leave) as a place of comfort and security even tho it isnt comfortable LOL.

Me and my BF are planning on getting engaged and married by 2021. But i never take the initiative to put my wants and needs first. I always do everything thinking about my unloving mother even tho she doesnt deserve it.

She told me to get out on thanksgiving night and i havent been back home since. Ive been staying st my BFs house which has been awesome and calm and full of happiness. Im dreading going back tonight. A litle afraid too.

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Bloodstone2020's picture
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Dec 3

@Maria199 You are with a boyfriend right now that you plan to marry in a year. You have an awsome time with him he has opened up his place to you. You're worrying about your grandmother and how your mother may abuse her. Sounds like you can't win with your mother no matter what you do. Sounds like you're not going to get her approval and affection no matter what. And there's no way to stay with your boyfriend and have others check on your grandmother or you checking on her while you stay with your boyfriend? Sounds like you need a break. Peace

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Maria199's picture
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Dec 3

@Bloodstone2020 very much needed break!

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