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I’m obsessed with my ex and only boyfriend i’ve ever had

I’m obsessed with my ex and only boyfriend i’ve ever had. It’s been 3 years since we haven’t been together and today I had a mental breakdown. A week after we broke up after being together for 4 years he had a new girlfriend whose he’s been with ever since. In the 4 years we spent together all he ever did was lie to me, cheat on me and treat me like I meant nothing to him. A couple months back he told me that they weren’t together and we hooked up. I don’t know why I always give in to him it’s like he has a magic spell over me that can make me do anything for him and it makes me sick. Today I found out him and his girlfriend were never broken up and it actully killed me inside. I cried the entire day and was too depressed to even eat anything. I don’t know what to do to get better and I don’t know how to move on. I don’t understand why I keep falling back to someone who doesn’t deserve me I don’t understand why its so hard for me to move on and let go. I need help. I didn’t think I would make it through today but I did...barley.

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Mar 18

I am happy for you. You have a bright future ahead of you.

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Mar 18

@Lr24514 When I read your story why don't you just tell his current girlfriend but then it will open a whole other issue so not good advice it was just a thought. Well he has not changed whatever you went through in the relationship he is putting his current gf through. It helps like someone said out of sight out of mind and yes keep busy and get into a spiritual practice , church it really helps.

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Mar 18

@Hummingbird74 well this hasn’t been the first time this has happened. The first time I did tell his girlfriend but he has her so brainwashed into thinking i’m the liar that she didn’t believe me. The second time it happened I didn’t bother telling her because I knew the same thing would happen and this most recently was the third and final time and yes I considered telling her because we hooked up in his room which was filled of her belongings which when I questioned that he responded with “do you really think i’d have you here if I was with her” which quite frankly yeah I do but in the moment I too was also brainwashed. Yes he is a narcassist he will treat his current gf the same way he treated/treats me and I guaruntee thats how he will treat any future gfs the rest of his life. In a way a feel sorry for him because he cleary has a mental health issue that needs attention but there is no changing someone who doesn’t see an issue in their own actions so oh well. Karma will catch up to him one of theses days.

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